For some people, it seems almost natural. They think in the energy they want to attract, and without forcing it, a year or two later, they find themselves living exactly what they once imagined.
For others, it feels heavier. Some carry hidden doubts deep inside their energy field — doubts that silently whisper that what they truly want might never happen.
And then there are those who don’t really know what they want — and of course, without clarity, it’s hard to manifest anything at all.
When Manifesting Feels Difficult
In my own life, I have always been fascinated by the magic of manifestation.
I wasn’t sure what exactly I wanted to do with my talents. Helping people seemed beautiful to me — but how?
Looking back, I realize I never truly entered the healthcare system, even though I once considered it. I never even tried.
It just didn’t match my energy. The places I visited in the healthcare field didn’t align with the energy I envisioned for my work.
I could feel it wasn’t my place.
My Journey: From Corporate Life to Soul Work
Still, I didn’t let go of the idea of helping people — instead, I first stepped into the corporate world.
And soon, my talent for guiding others was recognized. Before I knew it, I was allowed to coach and support people on the job.
The HR manager even asked me to set up the works council — and from there, one thing led to another.
That was my beginning: working in companies, discovering human dynamics, leadership, creativity, success, and challenges.
Without knowing it, every experience was preparing me for what I do today.
When I look at my work now, it feels like a natural blend of everything I have lived
Every company, every obstacle, every lesson about myself — they all became part of the tools I now use to help others step into their best lives.
And that’s the essence of manifestation: it begins inside.
It begins with our inner technology — our thoughts, emotions, and beliefs.
That’s the real starting point.
How to Align with Your Dream Life
If we want to make a quantum leap into a new version of our life, we must remember: everything is energy.
And according to quantum physics, energy never dies.
It shifts, it moves, it transforms.
Energy is constant — and so is the potential for change, growth, and new realities.
When we understand that every possibility already exists — that every version of our dream life is already alive somewhere — we realize that our only task is to align with the energy of the life we want.
But first, we have to know what we want.
Clarity is key.
And once we know the direction, we must take consistent, conscious action:
- Go to events in the field you feel passionate about.
- Talk to people already living that life.
- Study and immerse yourself in that environment.
- Surround yourself with those who reflect the life you desire.
The more we enter that energy — the more people we meet, the more events we join — the more naturally we become part of that frequency, that network, that world.
Do what you love, even if it doesn’t pay right away.
Before I ever led retreats and trainings, I gave coaching sessions for free — for many years, next to my corporate jobs.
I did it because I loved it.
Because my soul felt alive doing it.
And that’s the secret: when you vibrate your passion, when you live in the energy of what you love, you become it.
Attracting Love through Energy
The same principle applies to manifesting love.
If you wish for a beautiful, healthy relationship, surround yourself with the energy of love.
Be inspired by couples who are creating something beautiful together.
Feel proud and happy for them.
And trust: if something is not available right now, it simply means it’s not yours.
The right connection will appear at the perfect time, in the perfect way.
A Personal Love Story
When my previous relationship ended, I had a surprisingly clear sense of what I was looking for.
I longed for someone who would fully trust me, love me as I am, without trying to change me – and the same the other way around. Someone I could be proud of, with a warm, nurturing energy. A relationship that felt natural. With someone adventurous and enthusiastic, a true lover of life, a beautiful human being – because I truly believe that love, at its core, should be easy. That you can simply be yourself together, and that this is the very essence of making life even better as a couple.
What I didn’t expect, was that this person was already in my life. Someone I had been working with for quite some time…
I’ll share a little story from my own life.
I met my husband in a company we both worked for.
At the time, I liked him as a colleague — I appreciated his energy, his kindness, the way he treated people, and how he made everyone feel seen.
But I never thought we would ever be together one day.
It wasn’t something I had in my mind at all.
Months later, after he had been single for about half a year, he decided to leave the company.
He invited me for a goodbye evening — just something friendly and simple.
I agreed, not expecting anything more.
We arranged to meet at the Vrijthof square in Maastricht.
He called me to ask where exactly I was — and before I could explain, he was already standing behind me.
He gently kissed me on the neck.
I turned around, looked into his green eyes — and in that moment, I just knew.
We had our first date at the end of August.
We chose the 1st of September as our official anniversary date.
It just happened.
Naturally. Joyfully. Beautifully.
The Power of Retreats and Soulful Connection
And that’s what manifestation really is:
When you trust, when you align, when you live with an open heart, life brings you gifts greater than your imagination.
Over the last few years, before and during Mallorca Soul, many people have come to my retreats and trainings searching for something more.
They wanted a different life.
They wanted to know which direction to go — left, right, or straight ahead into something completely new.
And sometimes, you just need to meet someone who already dared to choose differently.
Sometimes, you just need an environment where people see possibilities inside of you — even when you don’t yet.
That’s the magic I see happening again and again.
Not because I give people the answers — but because I help them find the answers within themselves.
At Mallorca Soul retreats, through deep exercises and soulful conversations, I help you reconnect with yourself.
I help you see your past passions, your true desires, and your own limitless potential.
You discover your own answers — not through pressure, but through inspiration, clarity, and connection.
At my retreats, I also share a beautiful ritual that I learned in spiritual centers in Brazil — a ritual that helps you align with the quantum field, release what no longer serves, and call in what your soul is ready to receive.
Because the life you dream of is already waiting for you.
You don’t have to chase it.
You only have to trust it.
Curious about the next step? Read my blog on Quantum Jumping – and discover how to consciously shift into the most fulfilling version of yourself.